Week 1
Financial Discipleship

Welcome

For the next 18 weeks we are going to talk about money. Probably not the way you are expecting.

You do not need the book. You do not need to know anything about finance. You do not need to have your financial life together.

Tonight we are not starting with budgets or spreadsheets. We are starting with your heart, and with the house you grew up in.

Chapter 1

Show Me Your Family, I'll Show You Your Future

The story follows eight college students, a finance professor, and a janitor named Clyde who has been quietly listening to finance lectures while he empties the trash cans.

Tonight you meet Noah, who walks in suspicious of the whole thing. Madison, who has it all together on the outside. And Berkeley, who is at the bank asking for forty seven thousand dollars with his mama's trailer as collateral.

If you have the book, this is Chapter 1. If you do not, just listen. You will not be behind.

An illustration of an empty college classroom in late summer light.
Illustration. Fictional setting.
The Text

Matthew 6:19-21

Open your Bible to Matthew chapter 6 and read verses 19 through 21.
"For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also."
MATTHEW 6:21 (ESV)

Read verse 21 slowly. It is one of those verses we have heard so many times that we quit hearing it.

Watch which direction the sentence runs.

Scripture quotations are from the ESV Bible, copyright 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
Remember This

Your heart follows your money.
It does not lead it.

You do not fund what you love. You end up loving what you fund.

Which means you do not fix your heart by trying harder to feel differently about money. You move the money, and the heart comes along behind it.

What You Absorbed

Money is emotional

Your family background, your values, and your fears shape your financial decisions before you ever run a number.

Somebody grew up where money was tight and never discussed. Somebody grew up where there was plenty and no plan. Somebody watched a parent get wiped out.

Nobody sat you down and taught you those. You absorbed them. They were installed before you were old enough to agree to them.

The Anchor

You are not the owner

Open your Bible and read these two.
PSALM 24:1 (ESV)
The earth belongs to the Lord, and everything in it. That is not religious language. That is a property claim.
1 CORINTHIANS 4:2 (ESV)
What is required of a steward is that he be found faithful.

A steward is a manager. He handles real money, makes real decisions, has real authority. And he owns none of it.

Scripture quotations are from the ESV Bible, copyright 2001 by Crossway, a publishing ministry of Good News Publishers. Used by permission. All rights reserved.
Every Week, For 18 Weeks

What has God entrusted to me, and what does faithfulness look like here?

As an owner, the question is how do I get more, how do I keep it, is it enough. That question has no floor and no ceiling. You will never once answer it.

This one you can answer. Tonight. With whatever you have got.

Tonight
Anonymous

What is your biggest fear about money?

No name on the card. Not the polite version. The real one.

It might be one word. It might fill the card. Nobody will ask you to tell the room what you wrote.

At Your Table
Discuss

What is one thing about money you learned at home, without anybody ever sitting you down to teach it?

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Keep This

Your financial mantra

A few words about what you want money to do in your life. Not a number. A direction.

Peace in my house. Free of this debt by the time she graduates. Generous like my grandmother was.

Put it where you will see it every day. Mirror, truck, inside a cabinet door.
Before Next Sunday

My Entrusted step

  1. Write my mantra and put it where I will see it.
  2. Ask one person in my family: what was money like in your house when you were a kid? Then be quiet and listen. Not a budget meeting.
  3. Read Chapter 2 if I have the book. If not, come anyway.

One more to chew on. If your heart follows your money, what is one small dollar that could move this week?